Which mother does not love her child? But the couple has just had a new child, loves to caress, indulges them too much until they have a heart, or so-called abuse. It is often said that love does not know the heart, so the child is afraid not to ask for it or follow his wishes. This problem may be important for parents who have young children who are good at shaking should find out to cope with their children. Consider these points with "Hello Doctor" together:
1. Discipline: The habit of creating discipline to guide children is an awesome thing that every parent should have or create a style for themselves. Created and must be implemented, even if sometimes they (children) are unhappy, crying, should not break the rules. You may feel unhappy at first, but after a while, they may fear us as parents and try to make you understand the reasons and promises with us.
For example, if we want to give you one cake, you should say, "Can you eat one cake? Do not ask another mom, we have already promised." Or if your child calls the phone to watch videos, watch YouTube or play games, etc., we should confirm with them before the phone (or Tablet) such as Mom / Dad let me (child) play or watch only one video or 3-5 minutes.
So, when the time comes, take the phone / tablet back, even if they cry. All you have to do is stick to the rules. The character of the child becomes good or bad depending on our education or relaxation as parents.
2-Reason: children want something or want to do something very easily or quickly get bored and do not want too fast. So do not let anything get them too easy. Try to encourage and explain to them why they (children) can play with it? Why can't you eat that? When they begin to understand and demand what you want, you can ask or demand reasons, they may show the ability to explain from the heart.
3-Priority: It is not different from adults, before deciding to do something is to find out, have a reason and prioritize what should be done first, good or necessary. Teach your child to complete tasks before going out. Remember, you should be strict about this, but do not be overly strict.
4. Disappointment: Normally, children can be upset a lot if they are not happy or we do not give them what they want. At this point, we as parents should use the theory of "love does not know" because no parent wants their child to be unhappy. It doesn't take long for a child to get angry, so it may be a good idea to upset someone. Accompanied by the above three reasons, when observing your character, your character decreases a bit and you should take the time to comfort him by explaining the reason to your child to understand why we do not let him do so. In the future, they can take responsibility and solve problems on their own.
5-Habits for children to want to know for themselves: Create a habit of cultivating thinking, explanation by starting the question why? For example, ask them playfully, “What do you want to do when you grow up? Why do you want to be a doctor? ” Or "If you want something, do not just imagine, know how to prepare to make the dream come true." There are some ways to motivate them to work hard, such as if your child wants a new car or something, we can make it a habit for them to learn to save money to buy their own. On the other hand, a reward plan is also a good idea.
We can make a table and every time you have a good attitude you put a star on it. Tell your child that the number of stars means they will be rewarded. When children are rewarded, they will feel successful and learn to love what comes from hard work.